Kizmat Tention

Author & Coach

What makes me unique?

There is only one Kizmat. 

There is only one person with the mosaic masterpiece of my life.  All of my experiences combined make me the perfect fit for you. The same as all of your experiences will make you the perfect fit for someone else. 

My people will be drawn to me and if searching, they will find me.

My words will resonate with them.

My story will resonate with them.

I’ve traveled many roads and have worn many hats and masks. 

Single Mom.

Stay at home Mom.



Non-Traditional Student.


Mother of a Stillborn.

The Scholar Mom.

And so many more that would take up too much room to name.  But I think you get it. If you’re here and still reading, then you have found your tribe. You have found the safe place where you can be you. In fact, that is one of the requirements to work with me, permission to be you.  I don’t need you to be who you think I expect you to be. We can’t grow from the illusion of a foundation. In my opinion, the broken the better. That’s where we get to uncover all of the pieces that make up your masterpiece. 

Your story.

Your triumphs.

Your truths.

Your sadness.

Your disappointments.

Your joys and Your sorrow.

This is not therapy, but what it becomes is the outline of your life and you’ll begin to see how everything was necessary to get you to this point right now.  The point where you discover how unique you are and how your tribe is waiting for you to get in position to be the anchor they need to soar.  


Why your story matters?

We all were created to solve a problem in this world.  Your problem is directly associated with your life experiences, which have shaped you into the person you are today.  It’s hard to believe that some of our most painful experiences can be used to build our brand.

But think about it, those experiences, both good and bad, aren’t going anywhere, so why not take them and use them for good.  You are already an expert in the field of “whatever” you went through, so allow me to show you how to use it for the good of mankind.

There are people waiting on you and you may be the only person that helps them reach their breakthrough, so it’s time for you to get up.  Just like I had to get-up to reach you, you’ll have to do the same for someone else.

It is literally the circle of life and one of the keys to true joy. Money can’t buy the feeling you get when you have helped someone get over a block in their life. You are more than just a mom and wife.  There is more to your life than working, cooking, cleaning, taking care of your family, and secretly feeling unfulfilled and unappreciated. I know, I’ve been there for years, but that doesn’t mean you have to stay there.

Who were you before someone gave you a mask that defined you? Let’s get back to the original version of you, and not the society driven version of you.  Let’s break the cycle of this story-line that has been passed down from generation to generation. Often what you struggle with may be something your mother and grandmother struggled with as well, and if we’re not careful, we will pass those things down to our children.

Some call them generational curses and I say let’s be the curse breakers of our generation and pass down the generational blessings to our children instead.  

Who do I work with?

You… because you are tired of feeling invisible and you know there is more to your life than the current masks you’ve been wearing (wife, mom, stay at home mom, divorced, separated, broken).

You… the one who wants to take all of the broken little pieces of your life and use them to help someone else.

You… because you are tired of sitting on the sidelines of life.  Tired of playing small. Tired of watching life and time pass you by.  Tired of living life year after year with no true change.  

You… the one who has secretly wanted to write a book or start a business, but you have allowed doubt, fear, and insecurities to keep you from taking the first step.

You… everyone else’s biggest cheerleader, but never having the courage to cheer for yourself.  

That… We’ll stay at the previous sentence for a minute.  We’ll figure out why you found more value in pushing others, but never saw value in pushing yourself.  We’ll discover why you never saw purpose in your story. We’ll uncover how you truly felt not having a cheerleader in your corner, but I’ll take partial responsibility for that, because I’m your person and it took me a minute to figure out that I was your person.  Because every step I’m taking you through, I had to go through first. I had to find belief. I had to learn to trust myself. I had to learn to believe in myself.  I had to begin seeing the faces of the people that I was called to anchor. But I’m here now, and if you’re ready, I promise you will not be disappointed. No more delays.  No more doubt. It’s your time NOW and you know it!

Your favorite Life Coach Kizmat

Kizmat Tention